What experiences in life helped you grow the most?

Every experience is like stacking blocks and I can’t specifically nail down the event the impact my development most . I can assure you that the most impactful moments were physically and/or emotionally painful and most likely very expensive because those are the lessons that most of us are unlikely to repeat. Although those moments were not enjoyable the event taught a valuable lesson, just another block in the stack that is what lives are made of.)