Dwain Northey (Gen X)

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/naacp-travel-advisory-florida-says-state-hostile-to-black-americans/

Remember the good old days when there were only travel advisories and or ban for, what some would call, third word countries? Well now because of the vile vitriol of one Governor Ron DeSantis the state of Florida, a vacation destination, has received a travel advisory by the NAACP.

The wannabe future President has made the climate so venomous in Florida the anyone who is a part of any minority group does not feel safe in the state. Black, Brown, LGTBQ+, these are all groups that are under attack in the Sunshine State. The majority Republican legislature and their fearful leader has passed laws that make almost everything a jailable offence and the fact that the state has very loose gun laws and a stand your ground law makes it more dangerous than being a blonde female in central America.

Florida residents are able to carry concealed guns without a permit under a bill signed into law by Republican Gov. Ron DeSantis. The law, which goes into effect on July 1, means that anyone who can legally own a gun in Florida can carry a concealed gun in public without any training or background check. This with their ridiculous stand your ground law, ‘Florida’s “Stand-Your-Ground” law was passed in 2005. The law allows those who feel a reasonable threat of death or bodily injury to “meet force with force” rather than retreat. Similar “Castle Doctrine” laws assert that a person does not need to retreat if their home is attacked.’ Makes it really sketchy to go there.

This in top of the don’t say gay rule and the new trans ruling that just passed.

“Florida lawmakers have no shame. This discriminatory bill is extraordinarily desperate and extreme in a year full of extreme, discriminatory legislation. It is a cruel effort to stigmatize, marginalize and erase the LGBTQ+ community, particularly transgender youth. Let me be clear: gender-affirming care saves lives. Every mainstream American medical and mental health organization – representing millions of providers in the United States – call for age-appropriate, gender-affirming care for transgender and non-binary people.

“These politicians have no place inserting themselves in conversations between doctors, parents, and transgender youth about gender-affirming care. And at the same time that Florida lawmakers crow about protecting parental rights they make an extra-constitutional attempt to strip parents of – you guessed it! – their parental rights. The Human Rights Campaign strongly condemns this bill and will continue to fight for LGBTQ+ youth and their families who deserve better from their elected leaders.”

This law makes it possible for anyone to just accuse someone of gender affirming care to have their child taken from them this would include someone traveling from out of state. This alone justifies a travel ban to the Magic Kingdom for families.

Oh, and I haven’t even mentioned DeSantis holy war with Disney, the largest employer in the state. I really hope the Mouse eats this ass holes lunch.

Well that’s enough bitching, thanks again for suffering though my rant.

  • Political Theater Isn’t Governing

    Dwain Northey (Gen X)

    At what point do the American people—especially the most devoted MAGA supporters—stop and ask a simple question: What are our elected representatives actually accomplishing with our tax dollars?

    Congress has an enormous list of responsibilities. The national debt continues to climb. Housing affordability is a crisis. Healthcare costs remain out of control. Infrastructure needs constant investment. Artificial intelligence is transforming the workforce. Water shortages threaten the Southwest. Those are the kinds of problems Congress was elected to solve.

    Instead, far too much of Washington’s energy seems devoted to political theater.

    We have members of Congress talking about bringing Special Counsel Jack Smith up on charges for allegedly misleading Congress during testimony. Whether one believes he was right or wrong, much of the controversy centers on whether his answers were sufficiently complete or whether he should have volunteered information beyond the questions he was asked. If Congress wants complete answers, then it should ask complete questions. If someone lies under oath, that is a serious matter and should be addressed through the legal system. But if the objective is simply to score political points, then taxpayers are funding another spectacle instead of another solution.

    Then there is Dr. Anthony Fauci, who has spent years answering questions about the COVID-19 pandemic. The pandemic’s earliest days occurred in 2019 and 2020. Mistakes were made by governments, scientists, politicians, and public health officials across the world as everyone tried to understand a rapidly evolving virus. There is value in conducting oversight and learning lessons for future pandemics. There is far less value in repeatedly calling the same witnesses before Congress if the goal is simply to replay old political battles rather than uncover new facts.

    And somehow, years later, we are still hearing attempts to relitigate the 2020 presidential election. Courts across the country considered dozens of election-related lawsuits after that election, with many claims being rejected or dismissed. Congress certified the election, states certified their results, and the country moved on. Yet some politicians continue returning to the same arguments, as though replaying the past is somehow a substitute for governing in the present.

    Every hour spent revisiting settled political grievances is an hour not spent addressing inflation, wages, healthcare, education, veterans’ services, infrastructure, immigration reform, or preparing the country for future economic and technological challenges.

    Oversight is one of Congress’s constitutional responsibilities. Legitimate investigations are necessary in any healthy democracy. But oversight should be conducted to uncover facts, improve government, and hold officials accountable—not simply to generate headlines, satisfy partisan audiences, or keep old controversies alive indefinitely.

    The question voters should ask is not whether they agree with every witness or every investigation. The question is whether these hearings are producing better government.

    Are they making Americans healthier?

    Safer?

    More prosperous?

    Or are they simply producing another viral video clip for social media?

    Public office is supposed to be about solving tomorrow’s problems, not endlessly replaying yesterday’s political fights. Americans are paying their representatives to govern. At some point, regardless of party, voters should expect Congress to spend more time writing solutions than rehearsing grievances.

    That is not a Republican issue or a Democratic issue.

    It is a governance issue.

  • Fate

    Do you think everything happens for a reason?

    Is this asking if I believe that everybody’s lives are predestined everything’s mapped out for you? I can’t honestly say that I’ve think that’s true. I do believe that we all have the ability to learn from our mistakes and move forward if that’s what you want to do, but I don’t think obstacles hurdles or happiness are predestined.

  • The Founders Were More Complicated Than We Want Them to Be

    Dwain Northey (Gen X)

    America has a curious habit of turning its Founding Fathers into marble statues. We quote them, invoke them, and claim to know exactly what they intended more than two centuries ago. But when you actually study the men themselves, you discover something far more interesting. They weren’t ideological robots. They were deeply flawed, often contradictory, and constantly arguing among themselves. They disagreed about government, economics, religion, and even what the Constitution should become.

    Thomas Jefferson is perhaps the greatest example of that complexity.

    Jefferson wrote in the Declaration of Independence that “all men are created equal.” It remains one of the most powerful statements about human liberty ever written. Yet Jefferson himself owned enslaved people throughout much of his life. That contradiction is impossible to ignore. Some dismiss him as a hypocrite, while others excuse it entirely because of the time in which he lived. Reality is more uncomfortable than either extreme. Jefferson articulated ideals that exceeded the society in which he lived, but he never fully lived up to those ideals himself.

    History is often like that. Great ideas sometimes come from imperfect people.

    Jefferson also held another belief that seems almost forgotten today. He argued that each generation should have the right to govern itself rather than be permanently bound by the decisions of previous generations. He suggested that constitutions should be revisited—and perhaps even rewritten—roughly every generation so that government would reflect the needs, circumstances, and values of the living rather than the dead.

    Whether one agrees with that proposal or not, it reveals something important about Jefferson’s philosophy. He did not see the Constitution as a sacred relic frozen in time. He saw it as a living framework designed to serve the people, not the other way around.

    Contrast that with much of today’s constitutional debate.

    Many modern constitutional originalists or textualists argue that judges should interpret the Constitution according to its original public meaning or the text itself rather than evolving societal values. Their goal is to prevent judges from simply imposing their own policy preferences. That philosophy has a coherent legal rationale, even if many Americans disagree with how it is applied.

    But there is an irony worth considering.

    One of the principal architects of America’s founding believed that future generations should reshape their governing document as society evolved. If Jefferson himself expected constitutional change to be a recurring feature of American democracy, then treating every word as permanently fixed raises an interesting historical question. Are we honoring the Founders by refusing to reconsider their work, or are we overlooking the fact that at least some of them expected future Americans to do exactly that?

    The Founders themselves certainly were not unanimous. Alexander Hamilton envisioned a stronger central government than Jefferson preferred. James Madison changed his views over time. Benjamin Franklin admitted that no constitution could ever be perfect. These men argued fiercely with one another because they understood that governing a free people required constant debate rather than unquestioning certainty.

    Perhaps that is the greatest lesson they left us.

    The Founding Fathers were not asking to be worshipped. They were asking to be understood.

    They knew they were creating an experiment, not writing scripture.

    The Constitution itself contains an amendment process because its authors recognized that no generation possesses perfect wisdom. The document was designed to endure, but it was also designed to change when enough of the nation agreed that change was necessary.

    Maybe we’ve lost sight of that balance.

    Instead of trying to imagine what the Founders would think about every modern issue, perhaps we should emulate what they actually did. They questioned inherited ideas. They challenged existing systems. They debated vigorously. They compromised when necessary. They revised their own assumptions.

    In other words, they behaved less like constitutional purists and more like practical problem-solvers.

    The greatest tribute we can pay the Founders may not be pretending they all agreed with us. It may be recognizing just how complicated they really were—and accepting that they expected America to keep evolving long after they were gone.

  • Home Decor

    What’s your home decoration style?

    Honestly, my home as a single nearly 60-year-old man is comfortable. I have some raw wood furniture. I have you know nice prints on the walls big TV. I would say living in Arizona the major things in my house are dust and dog hair.

  • Lyric

    What’s a song lyric that has stuck with you forever?

    Being a Gen X kid there’s a lot of earworms that stick in my head from every genre of music from money for nothing which is just a bunch of nonsense lyrics, but I would say the one that has the most impact on me is probably fields of joy by Lenny Kravitz, that song always makes the hair in the back of my neck stand-up.

  • Violation, but is it?

    Dwain Northey (Gen X)

    Language shapes the way we think, and sometimes the words we have—or don’t have—reveal blind spots in how we understand the world.

    One thing I’ve often found curious is that English has the word “violation” to describe many forms of sexual assault, but the imagery behind that word is rooted in intrusion. It evokes the idea of one person physically invading another’s body or personal boundaries. That makes intuitive sense in many situations, but it doesn’t seem to capture every possible circumstance.

    Consider the case of a woman sexually assaulting or raping a man. The crime is every bit as real. The lack of consent is every bit as serious. The trauma can be just as profound. Yet the language many people instinctively reach for—words like “violation”—doesn’t always feel as though it describes the experience in the same physical sense. The act isn’t defined by the same kind of bodily intrusion, even though it is absolutely an assault on the victim’s autonomy, dignity, and right to consent.

    That raises an interesting linguistic question: Why doesn’t English have a distinct word that captures the experience of being coerced, manipulated, or forced into sexual acts when the physical mechanics differ from the traditional image of “violation”? We have words like “coercion,” “compulsion,” and “assault,” but none of them function as a true opposite or counterpart to the way “violation” is commonly understood.

    Perhaps the answer lies in history. For centuries, legal systems and societies viewed sexual crimes through a narrow lens, often assuming that only women could be victims and only men could be perpetrators. Language developed around those assumptions, and as our understanding of consent has evolved, our vocabulary hasn’t always kept pace.

    The reality is that rape is not defined by penetration. It is defined by the absence of consent. Whether the victim is male or female, whether the perpetrator is male or female, the essential wrong is the same: one person has stripped another of the freedom to choose. The harm is no less real simply because the physical circumstances differ.

    Maybe English doesn’t need an entirely new word. Or maybe it does. But asking why our language seems better equipped to describe one form of sexual violence than another reminds us that language evolves alongside society. As we broaden our understanding of who can be a victim and who can be a perpetrator, perhaps our vocabulary should evolve as well, giving us words that more precisely describe every form of abuse without diminishing the seriousness of any of them.

  • Ask better questions?

    Dwain Northey (Gen X)

    Campaign season is upon us, and like clockwork the slogans come marching out. Lower taxes. Stronger police. Secure the border. Election integrity. They’re polished, they’re simple, and they’re designed to fit neatly on a campaign flyer or yard sign.

    The other day I stopped to talk with someone campaigning for a Republican candidate for the Arizona Legislature. I didn’t even bother to learn the volunteer’s name because, honestly, I was more interested in the message than the messenger.

    They enthusiastically listed the platform: lower taxes, strengthen law enforcement, improve border security, and enhance election security.

    I smiled and asked what I thought was a simple question.

    “That’s great. If you’re lowering taxes while increasing spending on police, border enforcement, and election security, what programs are you planning to cut to pay for it?”

    The conversation stopped cold.

    I continued.

    “Is it education? Water security? Healthcare for seniors? Mental health services? Road maintenance? Fire protection? State parks? What exactly gets sacrificed?”

    Nothing.

    Just a blank stare.

    It struck me that this is the question almost nobody asks during campaign season. Politicians love talking about what they’ll build and what they’ll cut, but they rarely explain how both can happen simultaneously. Government budgets aren’t magic. If revenue goes down because taxes are cut, yet spending goes up in other areas, something has to give. That’s not a partisan opinion—it’s basic arithmetic.

    Every budget is a collection of priorities.

    If someone promises another $500 million for border security while also promising tax cuts, ask where the $500 million comes from.

    If someone promises more police officers, ask which department loses funding.

    If someone wants to eliminate taxes entirely, ask how they intend to pay teachers, repair highways, maintain reservoirs, inspect food, respond to wildfires, or operate prisons.

    The same questions should be asked of Democrats.

    If a candidate promises expanded healthcare, free community college, renewable energy investments, and affordable housing initiatives, ask how they’re paying for it. Are taxes increasing? Are existing programs being reduced? Is the plan expected to generate enough economic growth to offset the cost? Those are legitimate questions, too.

    Campaigns have conditioned voters to accept wish lists instead of budgets.

    “We’re going to cut taxes.”

    Wonderful. Which taxes?

    “We’re going to strengthen public safety.”

    Excellent. How much will that cost?

    “We’re going to secure the border.”

    Fine. What’s the price tag?

    “And what are you willing to sacrifice to make that happen?”

    That’s the question that seems to make campaigns uncomfortable because it forces candidates to move beyond slogans and into governing.

    You can’t build more while paying less unless you can clearly explain where the money comes from. You can’t promise every benefit while denying every cost. Every dollar spent in one place is a dollar unavailable somewhere else unless there’s a credible plan to increase revenue or reduce spending elsewhere.

    Maybe we’ve been asking politicians the wrong questions all along.

    Instead of asking what they want to do, perhaps we should start asking what they’re willing to give up.

    Because budgets, unlike campaign speeches, don’t applaud promises. They demand choices.

  • Rewrite

    If you could rewrite any book’s ending, which one would you choose?

    Being someone who writes, I am not so arrogant as to say that I could make a book better by rewriting it ending because every Good author knows that you write to the conclusion not to the beginning, so picking some random title out and wanting to change the ending, you rewriting the whole book. Do I wish that the King James version of the Bible didn’t end with revelations? You know the gloom and doom portion of it absolutely but you know I do I wish that Romeo and Juliet didn’t kill each other or did the story of Cleopatra and Alexander didn’t tragedy. That’s the way those books were written. They were written that way for because that’s how the author saw them so I don’t have the arrogance to say I want to change some some other authors vision.

  • Who was first?

    Dwain Northey (Gen X)

    One of the more curious conversations I had recently started with someone confidently declaring, “Well, Christianity has been around longer than Islam.”

    My response was, “Technically, yes. But it’s not nearly that simple.”

    One of the biggest misconceptions people have is imagining Christianity appearing fully formed the moment Jesus was born, as if someone flipped a switch on Year One of the calendar and suddenly there were churches, denominations, creeds, and Bibles exactly as we know them today. History doesn’t work that way.

    Jesus was Jewish. His earliest followers were Jewish. They didn’t think they were creating a brand-new religion overnight. What would eventually become Christianity developed gradually over generations. The institutional church, its hierarchy, and many of the doctrines people associate with Christianity today evolved over centuries. Roman Catholicism itself didn’t simply spring into existence during Jesus’ lifetime. It became organized over time as Christianity spread throughout the Roman Empire.

    Then came the Great Schism, dividing Eastern Orthodoxy and Roman Catholicism. Later came the Protestant Reformation, which fractured Christianity into thousands of denominations. Lutherans. Anglicans. Presbyterians. Baptists. Methodists. Pentecostals. Evangelicals. Seventh-day Adventists. Jehovah’s Witnesses. And, in the nineteenth century, Mormonism emerged with its own scriptures and theology.

    At what point do we stop calling this one religion and start acknowledging that it has become an enormous family tree with countless branches, each convinced it understands God’s intentions a little better than the branch next to it?

    Islam entered history in the seventh century, making it younger than Christianity as an organized religion. But even that comparison ignores the obvious question: younger than which Christianity? The first-century Jewish followers of Jesus? The Catholic Church? Eastern Orthodoxy? Protestantism? Mormonism? They all trace themselves back to Jesus, yet many disagree fundamentally with one another.

    And then we step back even farther.

    Judaism predates Christianity by many centuries. But Judaism isn’t the oldest major religion either.

    Hindu traditions stretch back thousands of years before Judaism. Various forms of Hinduism are among the oldest continuously practiced religious traditions on Earth. Buddhism emerged centuries before Christianity. Other ancient belief systems existed throughout Persia, Egypt, Mesopotamia, China, and indigenous cultures across every continent long before the New Testament was ever written.

    So when someone boasts, “My religion is older than yours,” I can’t help but wonder what point they’re trying to make.

    Does age determine truth?

    If that’s the standard, then Christianity loses to Hinduism. If Christianity claims legitimacy because it grew from Judaism, then Judaism itself must acknowledge older spiritual traditions that preceded it. Every religion can trace influences, borrow ideas, or react to beliefs that came before.

    History isn’t a straight line. It’s a web.

    The irony is that nearly every faith teaches some version of humility, yet many of its followers engage in what amounts to theological schoolyard taunts: “My prophet is better than your prophet.” “My scripture is older than yours.” “My denomination has the correct interpretation.”

    It begins to sound less like a search for truth and more like fans arguing over whose sports team has the better mascot.

    Perhaps instead of obsessing over which religion came first, we should ask a far more meaningful question: Has it made us kinder, more compassionate, more honest, and more willing to treat our neighbors with dignity?

    Because if a religion has existed for 2,000 years—or 5,000 years—but still leaves its followers arguing over spiritual seniority instead of practicing empathy, then perhaps we’ve missed the point entirely.

    History should inspire curiosity, not superiority. The age of a belief system doesn’t prove its truth any more than the age of a book proves every word in it is correct. Civilizations evolve. Religions evolve. Ideas evolve.

    The real measure of any faith isn’t how old it is.

    It’s what it inspires people to become.

  • Dream?

    What’s your biggest dream?

    Sadly at 59 I really have no idea what my biggest dream is. It’s almost at that point where when my 21-year-old son asked me what I do for fun and I’m not exactly sure what that means either so you’re just getting through the next day, I guess.