Probably the best advice I’ve ever been given and we’ve probably all been given it at some point, but it takes a while for it to sink into your head is when my dad told me when I was a teenager and it really didn’t sink until I was probably in my 30s that you’ll truly never move on as long as you continue to worry about what other people think about your actions or your decisions sometimes you just gotta mess up to move forward and you can’t always depend on somebody else’s unsolicited opinion to make that granted sometimes you do need other people’s input but on personal matters relationships whatever it is sometimes you just have to trust yourself and not worry about what your friend thinks or what your neighbor thinks, sir you know multitudes of other issues just don’t let that other persons personal take on what you’re doing whether it’s wasting your education or whatever it is just do what’s best for you as long as it’s not hurting somebody else that’s the best advice I was ever given.