In the past, I’ve set goals or stepping stones you know every day you have your goal list of things you want to get done but the older I get it’s more of just putting 1 foot in front of the other and just get through the day so the lofty goals of your youth seemed to go by the wayside, especially one year alone and don’t have a spouse or kids to deal with so a goal of setting for a vacation or a big event, go out the window so the answer to the you said goals for yourself is yes or no sometimes yes usually no