When my dad went back into the military in 1980 we moved away from paternal family and any loose traditions dissolved. I have been away from my family since college and never had a desire to participate in any gatherings. When I was married I did spend more time participating in my wife’s families events but now divorced those things have been forgotten. I am trying to start a father son tradition of going to a Green Bay Packers game every year but due to finances that hasn’t happened yet but hopefully it will, we started by going to a game for my sons 18th birthday and I hope it will be an annual event.