The sad fact that as you get older, your circle of friends shrinks is very true, but in some cases when you grow up moving all the time you never make friends that last a long time and the one thing that you do have to do is put effort into maintaining those friendships if you ever get any, and sadly some of us don’t make the effort so I can’t say that my idea of French of having a good friend or what a good friend is has changed cause other than my ex ex-wife. I don’t know that I’ve ever really had one.